Defeat as Method

by akbarnamaon 3/10/2026, 5:07 PMwith 14 comments

by jshaqawon 3/10/2026, 8:55 PM

A problem with mythologizing past defeat is it can lead to sacrificing the present and future. Some people have the need to live in a grand mythic narrative. Others just want decent lives for themselves and their children with security and a future.

by vishalonthelineon 3/10/2026, 10:51 PM

Baggage, whether it is from our life or lives before us will always be just that - baggage. If we don't choose how much to carry with us then someone else will happily choose for us.

To me, facing defeat with an open face means to not remain defeated forever.

Some of our best entrepreneurs and scientists lost many times before they won.

by SpaceManNabson 3/10/2026, 8:11 PM

it is a good thought. hits deep as well. though, i found it a bit troubling the rejection of one's roots because exalting the past could put less emphasis on the present or the future. i don't think that is universal; partly an erasure mindset. but i understand it in context of the article.

by iammjmon 3/10/2026, 7:32 PM

I hate theocracies. I hate that Iranian-made drones are killing people in Ukraine. Still, the tragedy and suffering of the Iranian people makes me deeply sad

by PlunderBunnyon 3/11/2026, 5:18 AM

"Disce Pati" (Learn Suffering)