The Paradoxes of Nostalgia

by prhrbon 6/25/2023, 6:19 AMwith 18 comments

by Lammyon 6/26/2023, 6:09 PM

IMO nostalgia is like the DRAM refresh for my own memory. I think nostalgia feels good to incentivize me to do it, like how sex feels good to incentivize the perpetuation of humanity as a whole. I suspect that when I “remember something” I’m actually remembering the last time I remembered it, not directly remembering the original event. Some day I would like to try building a filesystem like that where storage and access are the same operation.

Source: drugs

by lordlefton 6/26/2023, 4:06 PM

"What we really seek in our nostalgic reveries, I want to suggest, is the inertness of the past." Extremely well said. I have never thought of nostalgia in this way but I think it's true.

by pfdietzon 6/26/2023, 4:47 PM

Sometimes I spend time remembering how nostalgia used to be.

by biscuits1on 6/26/2023, 4:39 PM

A few questions went through my as I read this being incredibly nostalgic this past year as well:

1. Do post-life altering events like a pandemic stoke hidden nostalgic behaviors at a higher degree of a population?

2. What percentage of great creative works (any kind) were the result of revelry of that nostalgic wave of thinking?

Obviously this work is a meta result.

As someone wise said to me once "the past is a nice place to visit, but I won't want to live there." I'll extend this thought "If I'm there, I'll harness it to produce art."

by adamcon 6/26/2023, 5:29 PM

This is a fantastic essay. As someone who went through a rough divorce and estrangement from my kid (I don't even really know why), I know nostalgia well. This essay does a great job of investigating what is going on there.

by mmcgahaon 6/26/2023, 7:05 PM

Jello Biafra Nostalga For An Age That Never Existed:

https://youtu.be/wx5XS6uXP-g

by Animatson 6/26/2023, 6:44 PM

"...after a while I am still exhausted but have a closet full of kitsch."

That sums it up.

by cantsinghon 6/26/2023, 6:16 PM

nostalgia is a hell of a drug.

I loved this piece; sometimes I think of reviewing past memories as akin to rewatching a familiar show. There are no surprises, so even the hardest plot-twists have less anxiety associated with them.